One step at a time

Before one learns to walk they would have to crawl first. And that's how life works, in order for you to go to the next grade you'd have to pass the one before. You can't simply go to any grade you want. That's the thing about us humans, we want the easy way out of every situation, and later regret not going through all the steps in order. After a tragedy happens in your life give yourself time to grieve, am not saying have a pity party for yourself but just go through all the feelings, all the pain and all the emotions.You saving yourself from trying to find comfort in the wrong hands or the wrong "solution". After a relationship has ended, no matter who ended it always analyze your relationship and let go of the idea that the spark might still be there, unless it is of course . Not letting go fully will come back to haunt you, going on to the next relationship with baggage from the last one is toxic and unfair to the new partner because your with them but still shine a light for your previous lover. Don't be afraid of being alone, have some ME time set aside so time and again you can evaluate what is going on in your life and don't be afraid to eliminate people who add no value in your life. Don't rush life always take one step at a time.